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“If you're trying to get closer to God, then you have the best odds of making it”. When the husband mentioned God, it hit me deep. These days nobody believes in that anymore and when someone does and delivers their testimony on the fact that God and prayer works, it really hits home. I am a woman in the military and my husband is not and this really helped me. Thank you ❤

Sometimes, you just marry the wrong person.

Marriage is supposed to be sacred. Instead people chase people who are married or because they feel it’s easier to replace the spouse because they have flaws that doesn’t fit the perfect person. No body wants to work and fix marriage. My opinion is if you get married you’re supposed to work on the marriage not just throw it away because it gets difficult.

I can’t listen to any more of this; "how much I had done to cause this."

I absolutely can’t understand her going back after he had a very public, humiliating, and painful affair. What did he suffer through all this?

So it was her fault because she wasn’t perfect.

So accept the cheating adulterous spouse and tell yourself it’s your fault. Don’t do anything negative to the other party.

I wonder how many people watching this have been left. I suspect it’s mostly leavers who are watching. I’m a leaver! Nothing can be said. And it’s too late for anything to be done.

This was quite good.

So good..i know this to be true and i love it when i can truly be accepting..so freeing❤

A visual treat-well done!

Thank you for sharing this

📝 EDITOR'S NOTE: At 10:22, in the hypothetical situation Dr. Joe describes about his daughter being an atheist, he wanted to add that his acceptance of what she believed would open the door for him to have a deeper, non-confrontational discussion about God. A discussion where she wouldn't be defensive.

I love this ❤……this applies to having a great relationship with friends and family.

I watch and appreciate all of your videos and have purchased some of your programs, but as nice as it sounds to be able to tell my wife about everything and be accepting; my wife is just not that way. She gets extremely upset, actually angry, when I tell her about unpleasant things. I try to be accepting of her vulnerabilities, and I have learned to stay quiet and just listen 95% of the time. But she can not do the same for me. It is just not worth dealing with her inability to reciprocate acceptance. I have had similar situations occur that you had with the waitress, but I won't even consider telling her that happened. She would not handle it well.

This is the WORD! Dr. Joe you and Alice are the testimony and example of God's Word 🙌 Your honesty, integrity, and transparency are admirable!

"Personal acceptance is the biggest pull there is out there." - JB

She said she can't be vulnerable anymore

Emotional maturity most people are not there.

Yea right, the reason over half of marriages end in divorce isn’t the lack of financial dependence and social pressure to keep going. It is that people are not sexually repressed enough. Good point :)

Im 14 minutes into this, and its non stop anecdotes. I honestly gained more useful information through your other shorter videos.

Honestly it’s insane, I am over here seeking a relationship with God, trying to find healing for all the damage caused by my husband. Still till this day he picks on what I wear to what I don’t do, putting me down thru sarcasm & arguments. I look at his phone & there again inappropriate women.

I believe if you have allowed another person into your life, then you should go to that person, but don't cheat on your spouse. Grow up, and tell them the truth instead of ruining their life

Thank you ❤🙏

Your stuff do no work.

The real problem is most marriages the people are miss matched.

Is this also part of a wife lead marriage?

ok, here is your answers. Third wave feminism, No Fault divorce, and the family court system. Ok, now what else ya got ?

We are not overcrowded. Malthusian views of the need for less people is not factual. There is a population collapse coming if birth rates keep declining.

Woman run on feelings men more on facts.

How do you trust a woman or someone after being cheated on? I never trust anyone anymore.

Is this a sales pitch?

I know of a couple that held off till marriage. After marriage, as it turned out that he was endowed like a horse and it was to painful for her, and she just could not recieve him. It ultimately ended their marriage. So there is the factor of incompatibility!

I had missed my wife and hoped we could of reconciled through space and seperation. That we.could of worked on our issues and worked towards return. Found it hard as she went all scorched earth on me, i already had little trust in her. Find it hard to want to take her back, i feel for my kids im not sure i can ever take her back. I want to move on from her as it was a terribly hurtful time for both of us.

What is the point? There is no point

Look I get what you are saying but what dose that look like

Thank you for this chapter

“Have you been treating your wife more like a child than an equal?” … yikes.

I need your help too with my husband.

I was married twice. I tried to seek counseling for my exes but they both refused. The first was happier doing drugs with her friends and being in gangs. The second ex walked out to be back with her family because she didn’t want to be in Texas where we trying to have a life. My first ex was 29 (older than me) and my second ex was 24 (younger than me) at the time they walked out.

When this happened to me, I made a list of what is still possitive in the relationship and afterwards I desided to start a new life. So I did. Witout my husband. I mean, even men do not like men that are doing nothing...they do not even like themselves. It is pity. Thank you for the video.

What should I do if I suspect he’s attracted to my friend who is also our doctor?

Professor Bradley Wright, a sociologist at the University of Connecticut, explains from his analysis of people who identify as Christians but rarely attend church, that 60 percent of these have been divorced. Of those who attend church regularly, 38 percent have been divorced. There are no guarantees. From a mathematical standpoint finding a totally compatible person sexually and emotionally in a first marriage is rare. The paradigm can change with time and children. The religious factor would make one not divorce and remain in a unsatisfactory relationship. To much guilt to carry from a religious standpoint. Relationships from any perspective are hard regardless.

When is the next seminar?

I actually have limerant bonds that have been active since middle school. I'm 30 years old now. I still occasionally have dreams about some of the girls I was in limerance with. It's horrible. I'm going to try to build my confidence and build myself up to try to end the subconscious desire to attach to people in this way. I've been in treatment for cptsd for three years now and have made leaps and bounds, but I still can't get over the limerance. Even limerant relationships from 15 years ago. Two of the girls are married with kids, and I still can't stop thinking about them, even though I know it's wrong. Am I the only one like this? Has anyone else experienced this?

Get a divorce and take everything from the cheating spouse because they knew what they did

Your videos mentioned during dating about speaking their love languages. I speak my wife's love languages but she doesn't receive them. Her languages are Acts of Service and Words of Affirmation. She doesn't let me service her anymore. She doesn't accept my affirmations to her. So, what do I do?

Do you know a head of time behind at the end of time?

Honestly I’m glad that eventually it will end. It’s the most heart wrenching pain ever!

Sometimes you have held on too long and the only other solution is to let go😢